Ndiphakathi okunokukhethwa kuko
Umyeni wam abo kubancedisi, ubomi kunye abantwana (ubudala isibhozo)Mna suspect ukuba emva wokuqhawula umtshato ukuba uza kuba isibini iminyaka (Senegal) abe ufuna ukusa emva yakhe ekhaya-eli lizwe, oversees.
Wam umbuzo: ukuba lowo ingaba oko, ndiya isixa-mali alimony intlawulo hlala njengoko kumiselwe yi-inkundla kwi-Senegal, okanye kuya kuba ngaphantsi (lokulungiswa kuba thoba iindleko ophilayo, ngakumbi chances ukufumana umsebenzi, njalo-njalo).
Ukuba Swiss inkundla inika kuye custody abantwana baza bonke (naye nabantwana) shiya Senegal kuba kwelinye ilizwe.
Kwaye ndiya kusibamba kwi-Iswitzerland.
Iya alimony kuba silungelelaniswa kwi-enjalo meko. Siyabulela Nokuba, uza kuba ukufumana isixa-mali wahlaziya yi-wenkundla, ngenxa afanelekileyo tshintsha imeko, nto leyo iza involve i-solicitor, apho kufuneka kuqala kwizibuko umnxeba abakuluhlu lwakho. Ndicinga ukuba akazange cacisa wam lokuqala ngeposi. Ukuba Swiss inkundla inika kuye custody abantwana baza bonke (naye nabantwana) shiya Senegal kuba kwelinye ilizwe. Kwaye ndiya kusibamba kwi-Iswitzerland.
Ndicinga ukuba akazange cacisa wam lokuqala ngeposi
Iya alimony kuba silungelelaniswa kwi-enjalo meko. Siyabulela Ewe, ndim ukubhatala kuye kwaye yena sele custody kunye nabantwana. Yena kubancedisi kwaye sele akukho injongo ekuqhutywa ngexesha okunokukhethwa kuko. Mna suspect emva wokuqhawula umtshato kwi-Senegal, uya kuba custody abantwana uzame ukuba ushiye kweli lizwe Ke mna alenze ukhe ubene-hlulo ingeniso yakho thabatha inkcitho ngalo mzuzu, ukususela oko ndiyazi, emva wokuqhawula umtshato uza kuba ukuhlawula amabini anesihlanu ku amathathu yakho ingeniso kuba bobabini abantwana kuxhomekeke kwizicwangciso zakho canton imigaqo kwaye mna ukuthandabuza oku kuza tshintsha ngokuxhomekeke kwindawo ubawo - abantwana bamele kwi, le mbasa a sum ukugcina abantwana iimfuno ezisisiseko kwaye na imeko enxulumene. Nokuba, uza kuba ukufumana isixa-mali wahlaziya yi-wenkundla, ngenxa afanelekileyo tshintsha imeko, nto leyo iza involve i-solicitor, apho kufuneka kuqala kwizibuko umnxeba abakuluhlu lwakho. Ndiyabulela kuba le mpendulo Ingaba oku kwenziwa emva wokuqhawula umtshato.
Xa ufumana evident lowo ngu-eshiya Senegal kunye nabantwana.
Ndim nje ngoko ke abachaphazelekayo ukuba ndiya kuba ukuxhasa kwakhe kuba iminyaka elizayo. Uya kusetyenziswa umsebenzi kwaye kuya kuba thina weza Senegal yena enze isigqibo ezahlukeneyo, baphumelela, wathabatha abantwana kude zabo zomsebenzi umama kwaye ngasekhohlo kwam kunye abancinane kakhulu imali. Ndiyabulela kuba le mpendulo Ingaba oku kwenziwa emva wokuqhawula umtshato.
Xa ufumana evident lowo ngu-eshiya Senegal kunye nabantwana.
Ndim nje ngoko ke abachaphazelekayo ukuba ndiya kuba ukuxhasa kwakhe kuba iminyaka elizayo.
Uya kusetyenziswa umsebenzi kwaye kuya kuba thina weza Senegal yena enze isigqibo ezahlukeneyo, baphumelela, wathabatha abantwana kude zabo zomsebenzi umama kwaye ngasekhohlo kwam kunye abancinane kakhulu imali. Ndiyabulela kuba le mpendulo Ingaba oku kwenziwa emva wokuqhawula umtshato.
Xa ufumana evident lowo ngu-eshiya Senegal kunye nabantwana.
Ndim nje ngoko ke abachaphazelekayo ukuba ndiya kuba ukuxhasa kwakhe kuba iminyaka elizayo.
Uya kusetyenziswa umsebenzi kwaye kuya kuba thina weza Senegal yena enze isigqibo ezahlukeneyo, baphumelela, wathabatha abantwana kude zabo zomsebenzi umama kwaye ngasekhohlo kwam kunye abancinane kakhulu imali.
Ke mna alenze ukhe ubene-hlulo ingeniso yakho thabatha inkcitho ngalo mzuzu, ukususela oko ndiyazi, emva wokuqhawula umtshato uza kuba ukuhlawula amashumi amabini anesihlanu ku amathathu yakho ingeniso kuba bobabini abantwana kuxhomekeke kwizicwangciso zakho canton imigaqo kwaye mna ukuthandabuza oku kuza tshintsha ngokuxhomekeke kwindawo ubawo - abantwana bamele kwi, le mbasa a sum ukugcina abantwana iimfuno ezisisiseko kwaye na imeko enxulumene. Enkosi Yintoni ndinguye anomdla ukuba alimony sum ibalwa apho abantwana bahlala khona. Kufuneka kuchazwe ukuba ayinjalo. Iindleko ubomi phezulu kakhulu kwi-Senegal kuthelekiswa kwelinye ilizwe.
Ke ngoko CHF kuba 'abantwana iimfuno ezisisiseko' kwenye indawo iya kuba omhle kakhulu ingeniso.
Enkosi, le ilungileyo umyalezo ovela kuwe - okokuba mna uphumelele ukuba kufuneka inkxaso kuye kuba iminyaka elizayo.
Ndifuna inkxaso kwaye bancede abantwana bam ngayo nayiphi na indlela ndinako. Enkosi Yintoni ndinguye anomdla ukuba alimony sum ibalwa apho abantwana bahlala khona. Kufuneka kuchazwe ukuba ayinjalo. Iindleko ubomi phezulu kakhulu kwi-Senegal kuthelekiswa kwelinye ilizwe. Ke ngoko CHF kuba 'abantwana iimfuno ezisisiseko' kwenye indawo iya kuba omhle kakhulu ingeniso. Masithi, abantwana yiya izikolo zikarhulumente kwi-CH nto pretty high-standard, ukuba baya yiya guyana, e-algeria okanye nayiphi na enye ngowe- ihlabathi lizwe, uluntu esikolweni asingabo efanayo njengoko uluntu apha, ngoko ke ubawo uya kuba omnye lokugqiba ukuba babe hamba private omnye, lowo kwenziwa kuba ye-inshorensi yezempilo kunye nezinye iinkonzo ezisisiseko Enkosi, le ilungileyo umyalezo ovela kuwe - okokuba mna uphumelele ukuba kufuneka inkxaso kuye kuba iminyaka elizayo. Ndifuna inkxaso kwaye bancede abantwana bam ngayo nayiphi na indlela ndinako. Masithi, abantwana yiya izikolo zikarhulumente kwi-CH nto pretty high-standard, ukuba baya yiya guyana, e-algeria okanye nayiphi na enye ngowe- ihlabathi lizwe, uluntu esikolweni asingabo efanayo njengoko uluntu apha, ngoko ke ubawo uya kuba omnye lokugqiba ukuba babe hamba private omnye, lowo kwenziwa kuba ye-inshorensi yezempilo kunye nezinye iinkonzo ezisisiseko mna bona, le yindlela elungileyo sesishumi. Ewe, abantwana yiya kwindawo kawonke-wonke esikolweni apha Iswitzerland. Ngoko ke ndiyacinga ukuba isijamani ulwimi liya kuba linani mba, ngenxa yokuba ingaba yiya Ibulgaria okanye Ekhanada. Ngoko ke kufuneka silindele ukuba abe ufuna ukuthumela kubo private school phaya apho ndiya kuhlawulelwe, akunjalo. Enkosi Ewe, waye sele ufuna wokuqhawula umtshato ngoku, kwiminyaka emibini uya kufumana ileta wam pension ngokunjalo.
Ingaba amashumi amabini anesihlanu kubo bobabini abantwana okanye amashumi amabini anesihlanu epesenti umntwana.
Mna bona, le yindlela elungileyo sesishumi. Ewe, abantwana yiya kwindawo kawonke-wonke esikolweni apha Iswitzerland. Ngoko ke ndiyacinga ukuba isijamani ulwimi liya kuba linani mba, ngenxa yokuba ingaba yiya Ibulgaria okanye Ekhanada. Ngoko ke kufuneka silindele ukuba abe ufuna ukuthumela kubo private school phaya apho ndiya kuhlawulelwe, akunjalo. uphumelele ukuba uhlawule nawuphi na isithuba ngenxa yoko, uza nje ukuhlawula wamashumi amabini anesihlanu ku amathathu yakho ingeniso njengoko AP kuba abantwana, nasiphi na isithuba extras, ubawo uya kuba noxanduva lonto. Enye into elungileyo, ukuba ukrokrela yena ke bechitha imali kwi ngokwakhe kwaye hayi abantwana okanye hayi umnikelo i-abantwana a decent ubomi, ungaqala kunjalo ngokuchasene naye kwi-inkundla kamatshini ubungqina intlawulo kuba yonke into yena ke ukubhatala - ukuthenga kuba abantwana. Enkosi Ewe, waye sele ufuna wokuqhawula umtshato ngoku, kwiminyaka emibini uya kufumana ileta wam pension ngokunjalo. Ingaba amashumi amabini anesihlanu kubo bobabini abantwana okanye amashumi amabini anesihlanu epesenti umntwana. uphumelele ukuba uhlawule nawuphi na isithuba ngenxa yoko, uza nje ukuhlawula wamashumi amabini anesihlanu ku amathathu yakho ingeniso njengoko AP kuba abantwana, nasiphi na isithuba extras, ubawo uya kuba noxanduva lonto. Enye into elungileyo, ukuba ukrokrela yena ke bechitha imali kwi ngokwakhe kwaye hayi abantwana okanye hayi umnikelo i-abantwana a decent ubomi, ungaqala kunjalo ngokuchasene naye kwi-inkundla kamatshini ubungqina intlawulo kuba yonke into yena ke ukubhatala - ukuthenga kuba abantwana. Enkosi kakhulu ngoko ke, lo iindaba ezimnandi kuba nam ugqirha ntoni mna ahlawule ngoku. Mna ngenene appreciate kuwe promt responses kwi le mibuzo. Zonke eyona kuwe Ndiyazi ka-apha iimeko apho akunjalo, umz. inkosikazi NGU ukubhatala i ex-husband alimony (ngokunjalo umntwana inkxaso), njengoko bakhe-ngqesho iphelelwe, akukwazeki ukufumana umsebenzi, kwaye uthatha care ye-abantwana.
